Here we are to dispute the topic “THE IMPORTANCE OF YES/NO IN OUR LIFE”
Right from the beginning of our journey in this world, we hear the words
“Yes and No“. During the time of interview, not for job I mean for the admission
of LKG they will be asking ” Is the Apple red?” The baby has to answer ‘yes’.
Right from our sprouting period of life we face the terms ‘ YES ’ and ‘ NO ’ .
Our mind can easily be pretended, let me prove you with an example:
Read the line given below :
THE MAN ASKED:
‘The man asked is the bag RED?’ We all read the same right? Let us read
it once again, “THE MAN ASKED IS THE THE BAG RED?”, thus our mind can
be easily scammed. The two words YES and NO are the decision taking
parameters in every persons life. Using it wisely at correct time changes our
LIFESTYLE. Let us see the facts behind the two premise : YES and NO.
The word “No” has its own strong importance in the place of parental
Nowadays, the present generation parents are ready to spend lavishly for
their children. If the child asks for a dress, the parents promptly fulfills their
wish that too with a extravagant one. Whatever the child asks within a flash
the daddy says yes for girl child and likewise mummy says yes for boy, next
moment they get that, no matter how costly it is and thus the appraisal of
money is not known to the children. So that the word “NO” is something a new
phrase for them. In this contempo, the child is the decision taker in every
family. When we make a question from Where this change over came? The
parent answer’s, “whichever thing which I couldn’t buy during my childhood
days, I have to provide double the things to my children”. There are a number
of differences that prevails when we observe the past with the present, surely
when we think about the future generation it is really a tedious one and a big
question mark comes where it gonna end. If we go around some 50 years back
our fathers and mothers have not gone through the same scenario. At that time,
the value of the money was well known and our grandparents doesn’t say yes
for all what our parents asks. They applied some restrictions by saying “NO”.
Our daddy might have longing to buy a chocolate and our mother might have
longing to buy a biscuit.
When this modern child , grows up without facing any failure i.e. the
term “NO” in life, when he met with a first failure he struck there and takes a
wrong decision without knowing how to overcome that problem. Because this
is the first time, he faces a situation with the word “NO”, and can’t even accept
that he can’t get the one which he wished to have. Acceptance and Restriction
to the child at the correct time by the parents are encouraged, which is going to
bring them up with flying colors in the future.
YES OR NO – CHOOSE THE RIGHT ONE AT RIGHT TIME
“WHEN YOU TAKE A LOT OF TIME TO MAKE A CORRECT
DECISION, JUST REMEMBER , EVEN A CORRECT
DECISION MAY TURN WRONG WHEN IT IS TOO LATE”
When a person answers a question with a “YES”, he is referred as an
affirmative i.e. positive person. It reflects the positive approach of the person to
face new hitches. “YES” gives the will power that we can triumph. I’m happy to
reveal you that saying YES gets easier with time and practice. The more you
acquire with a yes, the more you learn, the wider your comfort level expands
and the more people you count as friends i.e our circle gets enlarged. Parents
fear the word yes, as it will surely lead to lack of control and utter chaos, but
YES under proper guidance will surely make the child to grow up in their life.
Yes goes you to check the potential consequences of the action of the child. We
can create opportunities for dialogue, learning and self reflection. There will be
growth of creativity, knowledge and leadership qualities within us when we
accept “YES” in our life.
“IF YOU THINK IT IS POSSIBLE, IT WILL BE POSSIBLE
THE MYSTERY OF LIFE IS BROUGHT UP TO LIGHT BY
MAKING AN IMPOSSIBLE INTO POSSIBLE INTO POSSIBLE”